We interrupt this blog for some mushy stuff. We will return to regularly scheduled programming after this post.
Four years ago, I married my best friend. Troy and I met the previous May one evening after church. Little did we know, mutual friends had been plotting to set us up, but their plans were completely unnecessary.
An unlikely match, indeed. A boy from Kansas, a golfer of all things. And me, the Southern California vegetarian with a wild past.
But we had two very crucial things in common. We deeply loved the Lord and were seeking His will for our lives, and our children. Troy was a devoted father to a five year old, and my Sara was three. We desired a family.
So we wasted no time. In just a few short months, the wedding plans were underway. Friends and family likely thought we were crazy, but they remained supportive.
On November 6th, 2004, our family was a reality.
Four years later, a lot has changed. Becoming a family was not without growing pains. Marriage was new to both of us, and my fiercely independent nature often got in the way.
We have since brought another child into this world, changed jobs multiple times, changed states, and survived the brink of financial disaster. Our fifth year of marriage begins with a new perspective.
We can look back and see all that God has done. A stable job, a home, ever-shrinking debt, and another little blessing on the way. God is good.
Looking ahead, I know the future holds challenges of it’s own. But I can think of no one I would rather face them with.
Troy, I love you now more than ever. Thank you for making me your bride four years ago.
Happy Anniversary, my love!
“My beloved is mine, and I am his.
He feeds his flock among the lilies.” Song of Solomon 2:16
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What a wonderful love story, full of God’s amazing redemptive power and grace! Congratulations on your anniversary!!! By the way, beautiful wedding dress
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Happy Anniversary! I am intensely proud of the family you have formed and look forward to the expansion of that beautiful family. God is indeed good.
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God’s work is rejoiceful! Happy Anniversary.
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Amen! God is good!!!!!!
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Love it! Betsy
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Happy Anniversary!!!
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What a beautiful story–happy anniversary!
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Beautiful!! I had to get my tissues!!! Happy Anniversary to you two.. and many more to come!
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precious story… and the wedding picture is beautiful… so glad to know you girl! ~ kim
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I know how wonderful it is to be married to your best friend!
May God bless your anniversary, your marriage, and your family!
*hugs*
Robyn
(rrutledge@charter.net)
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Praise God for the awesome blessings He has bestowed upon you and your family. May He continue to bless you and keep you!
Krista @ Charis Creations
P.S. What an awesome wedding picture!
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That was sweet! Congrats and Happy Anniversary!!! You were a beautiful bride
God’s plan seems crazy but it’s always good, isn’t it!
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Your story is soooo similar to mine! “Quick” timing and all. Blended families have some special challenges, but are worth every second when we are living life with our best friend. Congrats … my 9-year is coming up on the 20th.
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Happy Anniversary, and thanks for your story!
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Happy anniversary! I just love that picture. Congrats.
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Happy Anniversary! That is such a sweet story. The Lord really is doing some wonderful things in your life.
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Happy Anniversary!!! Great story!
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Happy Anniversary!! What a wonderful story!
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Great story! Happy anniversary. It’s nice to see someone working through it even when it gets tough!
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What a great story- happy anniversary to both of you. It is amazing how God can bring two people together like that!
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Alyssa! You are the second Alyssa I have ever heard of! My other Alyssa would love to hear about your. She is at http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/crazybusy. Busy mom to 6 and an awesome photographer who challenges me all the time.
I really enjoyed your wedding story. Our anniversary is Nov 4 and it was very sentimental for me to read your story since my hubby works out of the country and missed our anniversary and will miss my BDay and won’t be home for Thanksgiving. When he does come home for 2 weeks he will be moving us, so we won’t get to see him much! We have a pretty neat wedding story that stretches over continents. I am originally from Easter Europe and all my friends have been bugging me about putting it down. Maybe I will now that you encouraged me to. Great blog. Natalie
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Alyssa Reply:
November 6th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
This is too fun! Natalie, I too am Alyssa! Just had to comment when I saw your comment!
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You wedding photo is gorgeous!
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Hey! Just found your website… what an incredible story! I love stories of how God brings to people, especially two unlikely people, together. My husband’s name is Troy too!
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