My Wedding Story


We interrupt this blog for some mushy stuff. We will return to regularly scheduled programming after this post.

Four years ago, I married my best friend. Troy and I met the previous May one evening after church. Little did we know, mutual friends had been plotting to set us up, but their plans were completely unnecessary.

An unlikely match, indeed. A boy from Kansas, a golfer of all things. And me, the Southern California vegetarian with a wild past.

But we had two very crucial things in common. We deeply loved the Lord and were seeking His will for our lives, and our children. Troy was a devoted father to a five year old, and my Sara was three. We desired a family.

So we wasted no time. In just a few short months, the wedding plans were underway. Friends and family likely thought we were crazy, but they remained supportive.

On November 6th, 2004, our family was a reality.

Four years later, a lot has changed. Becoming a family was not without growing pains. Marriage was new to both of us, and my fiercely independent nature often got in the way.

We have since brought another child into this world, changed jobs multiple times, changed states, and survived the brink of financial disaster. Our fifth year of marriage begins with a new perspective.

We can look back and see all that God has done. A stable job, a home, ever-shrinking debt, and another little blessing on the way. God is good.

Looking ahead, I know the future holds challenges of it’s own. But I can think of no one I would rather face them with.

Troy, I love you now more than ever. Thank you for making me your bride four years ago.

Happy Anniversary, my love!


“My beloved is mine, and I am his.
He feeds his flock among the lilies.” Song of Solomon 2:16

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About Alyssa Francis

A thirty-something wife and mother of four! Two daughters by birth, one son by marriage, and a sweet baby boy born in April of 2009. Oldest sister of four girls raised by a single mom. California native. Grew up in Hawaii. Somehow ended up in North Texas. Once a single mom. Former agnostic. A survivor of abuse and addiction. Forgiven by a great big God. Married to my best friend.

Comments

  1. Sarah @ Fiddledeedee says:

    What a wonderful love story, full of God’s amazing redemptive power and grace! Congratulations on your anniversary!!! By the way, beautiful wedding dress ;)

  2. Mudder says:

    Happy Anniversary! I am intensely proud of the family you have formed and look forward to the expansion of that beautiful family. God is indeed good.

  3. Lisa B. says:

    God’s work is rejoiceful! Happy Anniversary.

  4. Cindy says:

    Amen! God is good!!!!!!

  5. Anonymous says:

    Love it! Betsy

  6. Mrs. J says:

    Happy Anniversary!!!

  7. Mama Koala says:

    What a beautiful story–happy anniversary!

  8. Monica@Mommy Brain Reports says:

    Beautiful!! I had to get my tissues!!! Happy Anniversary to you two.. and many more to come!

  9. { Kiddos & K9s } says:

    precious story… and the wedding picture is beautiful… so glad to know you girl! ~ kim

  10. Anonymous says:

    I know how wonderful it is to be married to your best friend!

    May God bless your anniversary, your marriage, and your family!

    *hugs*

    Robyn
    (rrutledge@charter.net)

  11. Charis Creations says:

    Praise God for the awesome blessings He has bestowed upon you and your family. May He continue to bless you and keep you!

    Krista @ Charis Creations

    P.S. What an awesome wedding picture!

  12. Andrea @ Mommy Snacks says:

    That was sweet! Congrats and Happy Anniversary!!! You were a beautiful bride :-)

    God’s plan seems crazy but it’s always good, isn’t it!

  13. Joy says:

    Your story is soooo similar to mine! “Quick” timing and all. Blended families have some special challenges, but are worth every second when we are living life with our best friend. Congrats … my 9-year is coming up on the 20th. :)

  14. MrsAdams06 says:

    Happy Anniversary, and thanks for your story!

  15. Kami says:

    Happy anniversary! I just love that picture. Congrats. :)

  16. Lisa @ Stop and Smell the Chocolates says:

    Happy Anniversary! That is such a sweet story. The Lord really is doing some wonderful things in your life.

  17. Nancy M. says:

    Happy Anniversary!!! Great story!

  18. Tonya says:

    Happy Anniversary!! What a wonderful story!

  19. MInTheGap says:

    Great story! Happy anniversary. It’s nice to see someone working through it even when it gets tough!

  20. Amy says:

    What a great story- happy anniversary to both of you. It is amazing how God can bring two people together like that!

  21. Natalie says:

    Alyssa! You are the second Alyssa I have ever heard of! My other Alyssa would love to hear about your. She is at http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/crazybusy. Busy mom to 6 and an awesome photographer who challenges me all the time.
    I really enjoyed your wedding story. Our anniversary is Nov 4 and it was very sentimental for me to read your story since my hubby works out of the country and missed our anniversary and will miss my BDay and won’t be home for Thanksgiving. When he does come home for 2 weeks he will be moving us, so we won’t get to see him much! We have a pretty neat wedding story that stretches over continents. I am originally from Easter Europe and all my friends have been bugging me about putting it down. Maybe I will now that you encouraged me to. Great blog. Natalie

  22. Natalie says:

    You wedding photo is gorgeous!
    .-= Natalie´s last blog ..Do you donate your clothes to friends, thrift stores or the needy? =-.

  23. Alyssa says:

    This is too fun! Natalie, I too am Alyssa! Just had to comment when I saw your comment!
    .-= Alyssa ´s last blog ..A Warning About Our Tech Generation Kids =-.

  24. Melody says:

    Hey! Just found your website… what an incredible story! I love stories of how God brings to people, especially two unlikely people, together. My husband’s name is Troy too! :)

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