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		<title>By: Being Gracious When Things Get Broken &#171; Frugal Fun For Boys</title>
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		<dc:creator>Being Gracious When Things Get Broken &#171; Frugal Fun For Boys</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Mar 2013 03:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] have to spend it on things that the children (or the dog) destroy!  Check out my guest post at Keeping the Kingdom First &#8211; I&#8217;m discussing that topic there [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] have to spend it on things that the children (or the dog) destroy!  Check out my guest post at Keeping the Kingdom First &#8211; I&#8217;m discussing that topic there [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Barb @ A Life in Balance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barb @ A Life in Balance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Aug 2011 21:01:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a mom of 5 (4 are 7 and under), I constantly deal with these types of messes/helps. My kids seem to be a bit rougher on stuff than other kids, though with a 3 year old boy thrown into the mix, things do happen.

When the kids recently messed up a Wii game belonging to their oldest brother, each child contributed $5 towards a new game, and my dh and I paid for the rest. Unfortunately, the game is broken again. As a result, my oldest is keeping the Wii stuff in his room, and only bringing it out at parties for the rest of the kids.

I try to involve the kids in cleaning up the mishaps as much as possible. We&#039;re also emphasizing taking care of our possessions more, and cleaning up toys on a more regular basis.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a mom of 5 (4 are 7 and under), I constantly deal with these types of messes/helps. My kids seem to be a bit rougher on stuff than other kids, though with a 3 year old boy thrown into the mix, things do happen.</p>
<p>When the kids recently messed up a Wii game belonging to their oldest brother, each child contributed $5 towards a new game, and my dh and I paid for the rest. Unfortunately, the game is broken again. As a result, my oldest is keeping the Wii stuff in his room, and only bringing it out at parties for the rest of the kids.</p>
<p>I try to involve the kids in cleaning up the mishaps as much as possible. We&#8217;re also emphasizing taking care of our possessions more, and cleaning up toys on a more regular basis.</p>
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		<title>By: Cricket</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cricket</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 17:09:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for great reminders Sarah!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for great reminders Sarah!</p>
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		<title>By: Becky Thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becky Thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 15:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just recently subscribed to your rss feed.  I&#039;m the now SAHM of a 3 year old and 7 month old.  I&#039;m finding your feed is exactly what I needed.  I recently really struggled with this.  I was finding myself angry all the time.  Especially with the broken fresh-out-of-the-box toys.  I finally reminded myself of a promise I made a long time ago:  To live a life where people are more important than things.  Now, I take a deep breath, let it out and say, &quot;It doesn&#039;t matter.  It&#039;s just stuff.&quot;  I punish my 3 year old where appropriate, but getting angry doesn&#039;t solve anything.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just recently subscribed to your rss feed.  I&#8217;m the now SAHM of a 3 year old and 7 month old.  I&#8217;m finding your feed is exactly what I needed.  I recently really struggled with this.  I was finding myself angry all the time.  Especially with the broken fresh-out-of-the-box toys.  I finally reminded myself of a promise I made a long time ago:  To live a life where people are more important than things.  Now, I take a deep breath, let it out and say, &#8220;It doesn&#8217;t matter.  It&#8217;s just stuff.&#8221;  I punish my 3 year old where appropriate, but getting angry doesn&#8217;t solve anything.</p>
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		<title>By: Chi Fitzgerald</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chi Fitzgerald</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 02:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If only you could teach him what to do with the TP he loves to pull off the roll!

It might break off and force him to come back for repeated attempts and if you&#039;re lucky he&#039;ll loose interest, but beware one object of fun will very quickly be replaced by a new interest.  

I have a Chiweenie puppy who is now 6 months old and was the worse chewer I have ever had.  It was a real challenge keeping him focused on what is &quot;allowable&quot; for him to chew on, but before we got to that point he chewed up my computer speaker wires and almost got through an electrical cord. That probably would have solved the chewing problem, but I would hate to loose him.  

You can see him on his very own Facebook page Joey Chiweenie.  The pictures are from when we first got him this past Spring.

Anyway he did learn not to chew on wires after a very stern talking too.  But then an idle mouth on a puppy is kind of like an idle mind in a child so he just moved on to the next object.  

He managed to eat out the bottom of my relatively new Queen size box spring mattress, then on too my house shoes.  I should have seen that one coming because I am sure it must be in the &quot;How to be a good puppy&quot; manual.

These days I have Joey fairly well broken of the unacceptable chewing and credit it to giving him plenty of raw hide chews.  He will sit and chew all day long if I let him.  Just be careful with the type you buy and how far you let them get with chewing the chew down to too small a size.  Some dogs will swallow objects just like a baby and child and choke.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If only you could teach him what to do with the TP he loves to pull off the roll!</p>
<p>It might break off and force him to come back for repeated attempts and if you&#8217;re lucky he&#8217;ll loose interest, but beware one object of fun will very quickly be replaced by a new interest.  </p>
<p>I have a Chiweenie puppy who is now 6 months old and was the worse chewer I have ever had.  It was a real challenge keeping him focused on what is &#8220;allowable&#8221; for him to chew on, but before we got to that point he chewed up my computer speaker wires and almost got through an electrical cord. That probably would have solved the chewing problem, but I would hate to loose him.  </p>
<p>You can see him on his very own Facebook page Joey Chiweenie.  The pictures are from when we first got him this past Spring.</p>
<p>Anyway he did learn not to chew on wires after a very stern talking too.  But then an idle mouth on a puppy is kind of like an idle mind in a child so he just moved on to the next object.  </p>
<p>He managed to eat out the bottom of my relatively new Queen size box spring mattress, then on too my house shoes.  I should have seen that one coming because I am sure it must be in the &#8220;How to be a good puppy&#8221; manual.</p>
<p>These days I have Joey fairly well broken of the unacceptable chewing and credit it to giving him plenty of raw hide chews.  He will sit and chew all day long if I let him.  Just be careful with the type you buy and how far you let them get with chewing the chew down to too small a size.  Some dogs will swallow objects just like a baby and child and choke.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Dees</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Dees</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 01:36:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-60819&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Chi Fitzgerald&lt;/a&gt;, Flattening the TP roll - genius!!  I hope that will work for the puppy too!  He&#039;s the one who does most of the TP unrolling.  He grabs it with his teeth and then runs out the bathroom door...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-60819" rel="nofollow">@Chi Fitzgerald</a>, Flattening the TP roll &#8211; genius!!  I hope that will work for the puppy too!  He&#8217;s the one who does most of the TP unrolling.  He grabs it with his teeth and then runs out the bathroom door&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Dees</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Dees</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 01:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-60812&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Renita&lt;/a&gt;, I have been there so many times!  Sometimes in the moment, it&#039;s easy to assume they are trying to sabotage our project when really it&#039;s just childish helping!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-60812" rel="nofollow">@Renita</a>, I have been there so many times!  Sometimes in the moment, it&#8217;s easy to assume they are trying to sabotage our project when really it&#8217;s just childish helping!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Dees</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Dees</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 01:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-60808&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Bonnie&lt;/a&gt;, Great point - helping kids understand why they need to do something rather than just because &quot;it will make mom mad!&quot;  Thanks for your comment!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-60808" rel="nofollow">@Bonnie</a>, Great point &#8211; helping kids understand why they need to do something rather than just because &#8220;it will make mom mad!&#8221;  Thanks for your comment!</p>
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		<title>By: Chi Fitzgerald</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chi Fitzgerald</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Aug 2011 22:10:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the article and the comments, however I couldn&#039;t help but apply myself to trying to find a practical solution to the unraveled TP delimma 

The first thought that came to mind is the old tried and true remedy for TP flying off the roll:

Take the toilet roll and step on it to flatten it out.  Then put it on the roller.  It makes it just a little less prone to spin off the roller. Kinda of spoils the fun just a little and hopefully they (pets or kids) will find other fun activities to occupy their little minds.

Another option is to remove all TP from the room and the next time they need a little TP you can seize upon the moment as a &quot;teaching opportunity&quot;.  

Note 1: this works on some kids, but pets seem not to care in the least.  

Tip: It is important that if this is to be an effective teaching method that you remove all objects that could be substituted for TP, including your wash clothes and hand towels (leave the bowl brush for the truly adventureous and industrious members of the household).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the article and the comments, however I couldn&#8217;t help but apply myself to trying to find a practical solution to the unraveled TP delimma </p>
<p>The first thought that came to mind is the old tried and true remedy for TP flying off the roll:</p>
<p>Take the toilet roll and step on it to flatten it out.  Then put it on the roller.  It makes it just a little less prone to spin off the roller. Kinda of spoils the fun just a little and hopefully they (pets or kids) will find other fun activities to occupy their little minds.</p>
<p>Another option is to remove all TP from the room and the next time they need a little TP you can seize upon the moment as a &#8220;teaching opportunity&#8221;.  </p>
<p>Note 1: this works on some kids, but pets seem not to care in the least.  </p>
<p>Tip: It is important that if this is to be an effective teaching method that you remove all objects that could be substituted for TP, including your wash clothes and hand towels (leave the bowl brush for the truly adventureous and industrious members of the household).</p>
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		<title>By: Renita</title>
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		<dc:creator>Renita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Aug 2011 19:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the great reminder. Just today I returned to a MUCH too quiet room to find my two-year-old &quot;touching up&quot; the drawers I had just painted. As anger began welling up inside me, God reminded me that no irreparable harm had been done, the mess could be far worse, and my sweet son was just trying to &quot;hep Mama.&quot; I&#039;m so glad God used an opportunity when I would normally have blown up, and reminded me use it instead for a constructive moment with my son. Good call on learning to be a grace-filled Mama!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the great reminder. Just today I returned to a MUCH too quiet room to find my two-year-old &#8220;touching up&#8221; the drawers I had just painted. As anger began welling up inside me, God reminded me that no irreparable harm had been done, the mess could be far worse, and my sweet son was just trying to &#8220;hep Mama.&#8221; I&#8217;m so glad God used an opportunity when I would normally have blown up, and reminded me use it instead for a constructive moment with my son. Good call on learning to be a grace-filled Mama!</p>
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